Vietnamese wedding ceremony is different from Western wedding ceremony. If you want to find out how difference Vietnamese wedding ceremony is, then please continue to read to learn about how difference between weddings and marriages in Vietnamese culture with Western culture. Organization a wedding is too important for a couple because it is an event that happens once in their life.
Vietnamese marriage ceremony usually is prepared carefully between the bride and the bride-groom as well as their families. They prepare their wedding ceremony a few months ahead. One or two days before the wedding, both the bride’s family and the bride-groom’s family build a nice frame in front of their houses. They usually use coconut leaves to create this frame and have a nice word on the top of the gate of this frame, such as bride’s wedding or bride-groom’s wedding. So, whoever look at this sign, they know whether it is the bride’s house or bride-groom’s house. On the primary date of the Vietnamese wedding day, the groom’s family goes to the bride’s home at the exact time that they plan months ago.
Normally, both bride and groom or their parents go to the fortuneteller to see what date and time is best for the bride and groom. They usually believe this date and time so the groom’s family and relatives must come on time. After the groom come to the bride’s home, the groom gives the bride’s family traditional gifts such as betel and areca-nut, cake, and fruit. Then, the bride and groom worship at the altar of ancestors as well as their parents. After that, the groom puts the ring onto the bride’s finger, earnings into her ears, and a necklace onto her neck. Sometimes, the groom’s mother put these gifts for the bride. Then, the bride puts the ring onto the groom’s finger. After a short ceremony at the bride’s house, the bride’s and groom’s family and close relatives follow the groom to go to this house.
After the wedding ceremony is over, they will have a party at the groom’s house. Some traditional Vietnamese wedding party is celebrated at their houses (usually country-side Vietnamese marriages), some Vietnamese marriage party is celebrated in the restaurant. All guests are invited to the come at the restaurant or their houses to attend the wedding party. The events of the Vietnamese wedding are like a legend. Vietnamese couple plans this before so this day is a special event between the bride and the groom. This day is the culmination of years of desires, day dreams, hopes, and anxieties. There is a band to play music during their meal. Some guest are free to sing related wedding songs on the stage to luck the bride and the groom. In the middle of the party, the couple go to each table to get wishes and each table have one person to stand up and say something to congratulate the bride and the groom, this person also give money to the groom.
Vietnamese wedding ceremony in Western countries are organized almost the same thing. However, they skip some steps, like building a frame in front of their house by coconut leaves because it is too hard to find these in Western countries. Vietnamese wedding party is usually celebrated in restaurant locally. They have same steps in the restaurant, singing music, dancing at the end, etc. Usually, Vietnamese wedding party in Western countries is celebrated in the evening, around 7 or 8 PM on weekend because of the busy life in here. However, all Vietnamese wedding ceremony is celebrated by following the steps as traditional Vietnamese marriages.
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